So it's time to get real.
After the first month (??) of living in Rwanda, I am finally settling into my home and routine for the year. I want to start exploring stories, challenges, and lessons learned from this community, but that's hard to do without giving you an idea of what my life is like day to day.
So in the interest of creating a true jumping off point and also just to appease my mother, I would like to cordially invite you to experience a day as a YAGM in Rwamagana, Rwanda:
5:45 am – You groggily half-wake to the muted shuffling of
your roommate, Katie, leaving for her morning run. She’s training for a
marathon…you go back to sleep. Good start.
My bed! As you can see I literally roll out of it and into the world. |
6:50 am – After a third alarm, you finally roll out of bed.
You pick the first skirt/v-neck/headband combo that will pass for matching. On
good days you remember to put on deodorant, but you always put on sunscreen. I
repeat: always.
7:00 am –You stumble into the kitchen and start boiling
water immediately. Your only thought is for coffee-some things never change. When
the water is ready, you pour it over the single-cup filter perched precariously
on top of your favorite mug, the one with the picture of the seductive lady. You
grab last night’s leftover chapatti, two small bananas, the coffee, A Mercy by
Toni Morrison, and voila! Breakfast of champions!
7:35 am – You rush, last minute, to fill your school bag
with things you’ll need for the day: poetry journal, water bottle, rain coat,
Kinyarwanda flashcards, and head out with Katie, locking the gate behind you.
8:00 am (ish) –You complete the 1.4 mile walk to school wherein
you say “Maramutse” (Good morning) NO LESS THAN 30 times as you are met with
choruses of “Muzungu!” (white person), “Good afternoon”, and of course, silent stares.
You enjoy this time of neighborly greetings and gazes interrupted by smiles as
you wave-plus it’s a good morning workout.
8:15 am – First order of business, procure that sweet
morning nectar, African Tea. It’s basically milk with a side of tea wrapped in
a blanket of spicy ginger. You pour yourself a plastic mug full, add sugar at
will, and get to work.
8:30 am to 12:15 pm – You attend Biology, Chemistry, and
Physics classes as they are offered. You help the teachers monitor the rooms,
answer questions, and brainstorm ways to make their science classes more
experiential.
12:15 pm – Lunch. Good, because of course you’re already
hungry; that baby banana didn’t hold you over like you thought it would. Lunch
consists of the following: a starch (rice, corn ugali, sweet potatoes, or
matoke) and a bean/carrot/eggplant soup. Except Wednesdays which are magical
fairy dust days that involve a mid-morning snack and fries for lunch.
Regardless, you are thankful for the meal you’re given-Lord knows you can’t
cook to save your life and these meals are warm, tasty, and free.
1:25 pm to 4:00 pm - Player’s Choice: You write the
occasional poem, sit in more science classes, chat with students, help teach
music classes, or fulfill your duties as a school librarian.
4:00 pm – You hang around for one of the many after-school
activities (student Bible Study, rehearsal for Graduation performance, giving guitar
lessons, choir practice) where you actually start getting to know students.
5:00 pm – You and Katie start the walk home, stopping by the
market or a store on the way to procure an edible item you will try to
make into dinner.
5:45 pm – You’re home! You hear the incessantly aggravating yet comforting beep of the
electricity meter that indicates that the power is still on. You greet the night guard, Mose, and walk in the house to find that your
house mama, Mama Eric, has cleaned your clothes and folded them neatly on your
made bed. You thank the good Lord for her, and question once more whether
or not she is actually an angel.
6:30 pm – Dinnertime. When you’re feeling really domestic you
chop up whatever is available and sauté it or boil some noodles, most days you
grab a chapatti from the corner store, slice up an avocado, add some salt, and
call it good. You eat dinner while chatting with Katie about something or other;
luckily she’s not judgey about your shoddy cooking practices, bless her.
An impossibly nice yet severely under-utilized kitchen |
7:30 pm – You walk outside and offer Mose some tea. He
accepts, and you chat with him in Kinyarwanda as the water boils. He tells
you about his children and you tell him about school. You suck at Kinyarwanda
so there is a lot of charade-like pantomiming involved in the conversation, but
you both usually get the gist. When it is ready, you hand him his tea (with two spoons
of powdered milk and one spoon of sugar), and tell him good night. He reminds
you to shut your window so the mosquitoes won’t get in.
8:30 pm – You are WIPED. You chat with Katie some more,
change into comfy clothes, and wash your feet, red with dust, in your small
bathroom. You brush your teeth using filtered water from your Nalgene and
retreat to your room for the evening.
9:30 pm – You untie the mosquito net hanging above the bed
and drape it around you-your nightly cocoon. You turn off the light, read or check your messages
for a few minutes by head lamp, and say a prayer of thanks for another day in
Rwamagana.
*Editor's Note: As a YAGM, schedules may change quickly and without warning. See also being invited somewhere last minute by your pastor, receiving 20 pounds of meat on your doorstep, and/or teaching classes of students how to beat box. Anything can happen.
There aren't words for the beauty of creation in Rwamagana. |
*Editor's Note: As a YAGM, schedules may change quickly and without warning. See also being invited somewhere last minute by your pastor, receiving 20 pounds of meat on your doorstep, and/or teaching classes of students how to beat box. Anything can happen.
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